The world is falling apart and so many of us are not even aware of, or simply ignorant or distracted to see what’s happening.
Stop today and take a deep look, tell your kids to unplug and talk from race, to politics, to health and now to war. This is dangerous time, we might think we’re fortunate because we are far away from it but just like in the ocean, there’s waves and ripples that comes to us in the shore and inland that unfurled from far away. We are human and we are all connected despite which corner of earth we live in or come from.
Stay in prayer, empathy, meditation, peace and denounce anything that is dark.
Yes you should train with people. Yes you should be part of a team or training group. But remember Winning requires selfishness. Stop giving the best part of you away, just because others demand it.
Why is it so wrong to be considered “selfish”?
The word “self” literally relates to your identity, your individuality. Self defines who you are. There are books, songs, T-shirts, “posters, and four billion Facebook posts telling you to “Love yourself!” “Find yourself!” “Take care of yourself! “Be yourself!”
If you’re going all-in on your self… wouldn’t that make you selfish?
Like that’s a bad thing?
It’s not a bad thing. And it’s essential if you’re going to win.
Remember this, Victory belongs to the one who wants it the most.
While time is trying to get in your face, waving its arms and setting off alarms to remind you how late you are, focus takes you to that place where you have no idea how much time has passed, and you don’t care.
Time reminds you how much you didn’t get done. Focus locks you in, until you finish.
Time creates distractions. Focus blocks them out.
Time tells you to hurry. Focus tells time to STFU.
When you’re managing time, all you can see is how long it will take. When you’re managing focus, you don’t care.
Time is about others. Focus is all about you. Focus on your growth, focus on your energy, focus on your well-being, focus on your path, focus on your love and passions. Focus.
Hey, yes you. Random that I will never meet. I truly hope that you will find happiness in life. Today is going to be a great day. So live it to the fullest, enjoy it and appreciate every moment and things you learn and be full alive and strong.
Remember how far you’ve come. Remember to be a warrior. Remember not to be static. Remember to be better each day.
Remember to be forgiving. Remember to be kind. Remember to learn. Remember to travel.
Remember to be patient so you can understand and to take time to respond. Remember to grow in love and not fall in it. Remember to communicate rather than fight. Remember to travel. Remember to live a wise and poetic life.
Remember to always being in pursuit of finding out what you are truly capable of. Remember to cherish what and who you have.
Remember not to take anything or anyone for granted. Remember to be calm and brimming with joy.
Remember to be full of love that cannot be contained, as if when shared you get to breathe and feel more alive.
Remember to live your life and also help others live to the fullest. Don’t be selfish, the creator is watching.
Remember, Self peace is a key part of every accomplishment and success, but you don’t have that until you have the right people around you. People who truly care for you and your beliefs and don’t just see you as a opportunity to exploit.
So, never forget that you’re not alone. Root this in your heart.
Make God you believe in proud. Remember that. The Sun does not need to shine on itself. The Ocean does not need to quench itself. The Cloud never rains on itself. The River is never selfish to the Sea nor to those where her path goes through. And if you look at the Forest, the Trees do not compete to be taller than the others.
I remind myself constantly, as I urge you to do the same. Trust only movement. Life happens at the level of events, not of words. Trust movement for it will lead you to flexibility and far in life. Experience has taught me this, that we undo ourselves by impatience. Patience is the ability to count down before you blast off. This is so very important.
Patience is also a form of action and you shouldn’t mistake it to hoping. Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going. Once you accept the fact that you’re not perfect, then you develop some confidence.
Don’t let your past victories build your ego nor you mustn’t allow your failures be the shadow you live beneath today. What you were and who you’re are not the same, and who you were and are today will never know who you will become for the future is a gift, not one but many. Don’t count yourself out nor beat yourself down.
Stay Strong, Stay Positive, Stay Motivated, Love Life. Life is Good, so be good even when it is hard 🙂
If you have great self-worth, you won’t have to worry about having a job because people are spontaneously drawn to this quality and want to employ or work for those who have it.
People who complain that the world is unfair or unjust because others are being given so much while they’re getting so little are creating that situation themselves, and only they can change it.
The world is fair; you receive what you give.
If you’re not receiving in abundance, it’s because you’re avoiding the things that those who receive so much are doing.
Remember it is wise to be realistic with your goals, rather than trying to achieve something unattainable.
And don’t expect a quick fix.
Rather set yourself smaller, more achievable goals, and then, when you meet them, you’ll feel more inspired to continue to expand them further.
Be wise enough to know where you belong. Be passionate enough about what you do. Be thoughtful enough to invest more in what makes you better. Be brave enough to always be willing to make a change or go further than you can see. Be cool enough that no feeling can ever burn your stillness. Be more than enough than it is necessary. Above all, be a gift, to those you love, to this life and those who needs you, let nothing ever change you from being so much more that a gift is meant to be.
Remember, a clear, undistracted mind that is focused on purpose has power.
We grow up to judge ourselves with the mistakes we’ve made, the things we have gone through, we walk with painful wounds that should have healed with the time behind, we live by breathing our past as if it is where we are. But that all is our own choosing and not how our lives are today.
The truth is, You were born with potential. You were born with strength. You were born with goodness and trust. You were born with ideas and dreams. You were born with greatness. You were born with hands and legs. You are not meant for crawling, so don’t. You have legs. Learn to use them and run. You have hands. Learn to use them and built the life of your dreams.
You mustn’t live which that has passed, no lion ever wakes up to hunt for a carcass, it goes for which that can fulfills it, it will not be easy for it to catch it, but it will run for it with its heart and soul.
Just because you coach or coached somebody. Just because you paid for their school fees. Just because you paid for their first air ticket. Just because you paid for their food or rent. Just because you paid for their massage. Just because you bought them shoes or a watch or clothes. Whatever you did, no matter for how long you did it or they’ve been under your care, it does not entitle you to own them, to control them, to have sex with them, to hurt and abuse them, to take what their talent and hard work has given them. They are not your property.
Reality is so real… Life is all about evolution. What looks like a mistake to others can truly be a milestone in your life. Even if people have betrayed you, even if your heart was broken, even if people misunderstand or misjudge you, you have to learn from these incidents.
We are all humans and we all make mistakes, but learning and growing from them is what makes the difference. Each one of us has our own evolution of life, and each one of us goes through different tests which are unique and challenging. But certain things are common. And we do learn things from each other’s experiences.
On a spiritual journey, we all have the same destination. What’s important is to be able to see yourself, the longer we listen to one another, with real attention, the more commonality we will find in all our lives.
That is to say, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply one sided opinions.
Infuse your life with action. Don’t wait for it to happen. Make it happen NOW. Make your own future. Make your own hope. Make your own happiness. And whatever your beliefs, honor your creator, not by passively waiting for grace to come down from upon high, as far as I know we have one life, make it count. … Right Now. Life is Good-KC
Motivation comes from what you want to do. When you really want to do something, there’s no problem motivating yourself to do it. Ask yourself what you really want to accomplish and let that be your guiding light.
It is wise to forgive yourself, so much good that has yet to happen to you depends on it. So recognize the cost of unforgiveness.
Choosing not to forgive yourself will cost your identity and your capacity to give and receive love. Unforgiveness will weigh you down. Let me explain this with a word picture. Imagine that each one of us is walking through life with a backpack full of metaphorical rocks and bricks of past traumas, past choices and current challenges. Some of the rocks and bricks were put there by others, some were put there by the systems and cultures we were raised in, and some were put there by us. Unforgiveness is like a collection of bricks we’re lugging around all day, every day. Did you yell at your kid after a stressful day at work? That’s a brick. Are you burning with shame because a friend found out you gossiped about her? Another brick.
Pretty soon, you’re scratching and clawing just to get through the day with all of this extra weight on your shoulders. You can choose to keep carrying the bricks. But as you take one weary step after another, you’ll sink lower and lower into a black pit of bitterness. And bitterness is a poison that limits your capacity to give and receive love. It’s nonsense to wallow in bitterness—you’re only hurting yourself. To sum this all up: Self-forgiveness is the process of removing the bricks you’ve put in your own “backpack,” examining them, learning from them, and then laying them down. And choosing not to forgive yourself comes at a high cost.
Forgive yourself, your future-self needs you to be of kind and pure mind.
Your story may have such a happy beginning, it is the rest if your life that make you who you are. Always try to be a better being even when everything is stacked against you, even if pain is all everything is causing you to feel. You can still choose to be better, to be happy, to be joyful, to be peaceful. That’s the strength, that’s what make life beautiful.