Setbacks in life come in all forms, relationships ending, injury, sickness, losing a job. When a setback comes (and they always do) its important to know that its only a setback if you stop trying.
Maybe that setback changed your course for good. That’s good, now you are free and strong on your own to try something new and different. So you see a setback is really just a blessing.
Give up being a helpless victim of despair and broken hurted. – Yes, it is unfortunate that sometimes bad things happen to the best of people. Life can be unfair, unkind and unjust.
However, being stuck in a victim mentality does not nurture your ability to move onward and upward. You’ve got to stand back up and take positive steps to heal and grow.
Just because you are struggling does NOT mean you are failing. Every great success requires some kind of struggle to get there. Good things don’t come to those who wait. Good things come to those who work hard and struggle to pursue the goals and dreams they believe in.
Give up trying to be perfect. – Sometimes we try to show the world that we are flawless in hopes that we will be liked and accepted by everyone. But we can’t please everyone, and we shouldn’t try.
The beauty of us lies in our vulnerability, our love, our complex emotions – our authentic imperfections.
When we embrace who we are and decide to be authentic, instead of perfect, we open ourselves up to real relationships, real happiness, and real success.
There is no need to put on a mask. There is no need to pretend to be someone you’re not. You are perfectly imperfect just the way you are.
Give up worrying about past failures. – Accept your past without regret, handle your presence with confidence, and face your future without fear. You are today where your thoughts and actions have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts and actions take you.